tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12077847.post114178244083599901..comments2023-10-26T02:16:06.730-07:00Comments on Dawn...: With the new day comes new strength and new thoughts.”Dawnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15924485784546039937noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12077847.post-1142046454811932492006-03-10T19:07:00.000-08:002006-03-10T19:07:00.000-08:00keshi: Yes dear...I totally agree n I guess thats ...<B>keshi</B>: Yes dear...I totally agree n I guess thats the point am trying to make here is ...it is a difficult task and hence its here...easy things anybody does it...isnt it ?<BR/>am glad you added your point in little words :)<BR/><BR/>cheers dear<BR/><BR/><B>manish</B>: nuyi aur meri views similar hein isiliye socha mere dost kya sochte hein..:)<BR/>what you are asking to do clearly says that the differentiation is made already ...between the biological child and adopted one...so cant go further from here :)<BR/>Thnx for your views though :)<BR/>cheers<BR/><BR/><B>kl</B>: dear you go gal ...thats should be the spirit..all I will say is never make her realize that you are doing a favour...its the least you could do...my best wishes to you !! am so proud of you and your thoughts my dear<BR/>cheers<BR/><BR/><B>sujit</B>: Yes dear...I think we all know what not to do..so then why do we hesitate to take that step...is am wondering...this shows lack of confidence..there might be n number of reasons...and am not coming to the point here as one of my blog reader..who is new wanderer, has commented so well...I dont have to explain anything :)<BR/>you said it right!<BR/>cheers<BR/><BR/><B>mirzaghalib</B>: Yes Sir!!! :)<BR/><BR/><BR/><B>kumar chetan</B>: Dont be Jealous just envy ;) hehehehe<BR/><BR/><B>puneet</B>: Isnt life like that...first its all fun and then when u deep dive into it ...you find its all together a different story :)!!! And I really appreciate your thoughts ..thnx<BR/>cheers<BR/><BR/><B>ishita</B>: Dear actually one of my colleague did the same and he always says ..life is heaven for all of them...and I believe in him as he always talks to his adopted daughter and makes sure he gives attention to all her needs...as a father to his biological son...so...we can if we are willing to take that extra step...I sincerely liked your comments, appreciated.<BR/>cheers<BR/><BR/><B>wanderer</B>: Welcome to my blog and pls do come again n again :)...this morning when I read ur comment...boy you cant believe how happy n excited I was...:) ..as I was reading comments ...I thought I might have to write here another post..but you said it all...thnx for saving my time :)<BR/>thnx a ton<BR/>cheersDawnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15924485784546039937noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12077847.post-1141967217651051512006-03-09T21:06:00.000-08:002006-03-09T21:06:00.000-08:00We dont gain anything just some ppl get a twitch o...We dont gain anything just some ppl get a twitch of happiness wen its over to their own child but it isnt that wen u adopt someone that wont be ur OWN<BR/>You take a big responsibility to be a mentor of someone innocent and later u cant just kick out from it!!<BR/><BR/>When someone gives birth to a child, SHE RAISES A NEW LIFE<BR/><BR/>BUT BY ADOPTING SOMEONE, SHE INFUSES LIFE TO A DEAD HOPE!Vipulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03486001780567799876noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12077847.post-1141906157456894702006-03-09T04:09:00.000-08:002006-03-09T04:09:00.000-08:00i know of a very nice and loving couple who have a...i know of a very nice and loving couple who have a cute and naughty son:-) and then they were sure they wanted a second child but they were also very very keen on a baby girl:-)...and so they adopted an adorable little baby girl:-)...and they're one happy family!<BR/><BR/>i don't see the cons in adoption...all one needs is more awareness and more luvving couples who wld make good parents...then again i wldn't limit it to couples! A good example is Sushmita Sen and her lil baby Renee:-)...<BR/><BR/>I'm glad u wrote about this and raised a debate...:-)...people will think and be aware:)...thanks:)ishipishihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09329030306382065437noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12077847.post-1141894461326841922006-03-09T00:54:00.000-08:002006-03-09T00:54:00.000-08:00first I thought its gonna be a light post... the w...first I thought its gonna be a light post... the way u started off... bt then mam to bahut hi sanjida topic par aagayi :-))<BR/><BR/>I loved both the quotes on adoption...<BR/><BR/>I see no harm in adopting a kid...<BR/>what values more is how you feel for that person...<BR/>its not that the blood relations r always true n best...<BR/>:-))<BR/><BR/>Very nice post dear :-)<BR/><BR/>CheersPuNeEthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03709220866751774513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12077847.post-1141885976839297462006-03-08T22:32:00.000-08:002006-03-08T22:32:00.000-08:00m very jealous of Ufrom where do u find all these ...m very jealous of U<BR/>from where do u find all these quotes<BR/>“The moments of happiness we enjoy take us by surprise. It is not that we seize them, but that they seize us.”<BR/>and above all them U remember them.<BR/>I read a lot of quotes but am unable to remember them...<BR/>is kaan suni us kaan se nikli.<BR/>I like this one “It is better to light one small candle than to curse the darkness.”<BR/>They will soon appear on Bewajahkumarldhhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07596015556734965192noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12077847.post-1141854033756840072006-03-08T13:40:00.000-08:002006-03-08T13:40:00.000-08:00Adoption ahs to be caried out.. by the love toward...Adoption ahs to be caried out.. by the love towards a kid.. not by sympathy of things like that.. !! Its ture that its a great thing to adopt a kid.. but the main problem that still persists one.. is how much can we trust!.. its the intution that takes over when the kid some mistake to relate things to their past.!! such kind of attitude should not be their!!.. And that is one of the reason that most who adopt a child are either childlesss.. or in other case they have one biological child and another one adopted one!!...Sujithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12046913852860916074noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12077847.post-1141825198658356682006-03-08T05:39:00.001-08:002006-03-08T05:39:00.001-08:00Now, where is your Hindi blog?????Now, where is your Hindi blog?????KLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06737654325235566310noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12077847.post-1141825184275229642006-03-08T05:39:00.000-08:002006-03-08T05:39:00.000-08:00I love the idea of adoption. In fact, I think I am...I love the idea of adoption. In fact, I think I am going to adopt some/one as I settle down in life. I can't do it right now. I know it's hard for a child not to know his/her biological parents (as Manish pointed out), but I think it's better that he/she grows up with love and a family for support instead of just growing up in some orphanage or in the road. But, yes, if we do an adoption - we should be very ready for the huge burden - physically, mentally and psychologically. An example - as I child grows up and I don't like something of her, I should not blame her and her unknown parents (as we tend to do, thinking that our genes are responsible for everything about us!) for that. Because if I do that, I can psychologically damage that child.KLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06737654325235566310noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12077847.post-1141795665133985762006-03-07T21:27:00.000-08:002006-03-07T21:27:00.000-08:00sorry for typoChild sees act of her...sorry for typo<BR/><BR/>Child <B>sees</B> act of her...Manish Kumarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10739848141759842115noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12077847.post-1141795471706651272006-03-07T21:24:00.000-08:002006-03-07T21:24:00.000-08:00Well frens ke view jaanne ki bajay Nuyi ka view ja...Well frens ke view jaanne ki bajay Nuyi ka view jaanna jyada juroori hai :) :)<BR/><BR/>But since u have asked it go for two* one each for both condition...<BR/>...<BR/>* that is min considering u have 7mp CANON :) :)<BR/>Let me think from child/s p.o.v.<BR/>We always search for our roots..no matter how much love u shower on ur adopted child, one day when he knows abt the truth that he is adopted he will always try to find out his real identity. In some cases a child act of her non biological parents more as a pity or charity in comparison to pure love.<BR/><BR/>Aur ye yaad dilane ki juroorat nahin ki ........in q :)Manish Kumarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10739848141759842115noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12077847.post-1141786574867101952006-03-07T18:56:00.000-08:002006-03-07T18:56:00.000-08:00Very imp and nice topic...Adoption can only be car...Very imp and nice topic...<BR/><BR/>Adoption can only be carried out if one doesnt think in terms of 'Adoption'...thats all I say :)<BR/><BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.com