Showing posts with label Friendship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Friendship. Show all posts

Monday, December 06, 2021

It isn’t what you have in your pocket that makes you thankful, but what you have in your heart..!


It's been a while since my last post on Halloween. I can say I was busy but I was busy mentally too. There were lot of things that were going on and even though I wanted to come and share here, it kept slipping to tomorrow and then you know how things happen.



It was my birthday on November seventh and because of my sweet friends the celebration took place through out the month. I am just filled with gratitude and thankfulness for having such loving friends.

Sometimes, blessings come in different packages, forms and shapes. 
Because right after my birthday I was given a free show ticket for Snarky Puppy by #SFJAZZ as I am one of their leadership circle member it was like a cherry on the cake. Such a blessing.



While all this was happening, I was making plans to go watch Bryan Adams who was performing live in Las Vegas. This was a dream come true for me as I grew up listening to Bryan Adam's music and it was such a nostalgic moment when I heard him live in that same manner how I have heard his voice in cassettes those days.

One thing that people were talking about is that Bryan is sixty two years old and don't know if we will get to see him performing again - I have only one thing to say to them, he will sing even next year and next to that too. His voice, his energy everything was just like how it was when I was growing up listening to him. It was amazing to get a hi-fi from Bryan and then sliding away the hand saying see you inside the auditorium. I can't say anything about that experience and happiness that I got from this legend.

When I was taking off for Vegas, I had so many things in mind, my emotions were gushing and rushing and after watching Bryan Adam performing live, I thought I have so many things to express and here I am so full of him that I am unable to put anything in words that will do justice to my emotions and feelings for re-living my childhood moments.

"Somethings are better when you experience it "~ Dawn 


After I came back from Vegas, it was thanksgiving dinner at our friends place and my gratitude has no limits. I take this opportunity to thank each one of my friends, family and my friends here.

Thank You, for the love.

"I have a lot to be thanksful for. I am healthy, happy, and I am loved." ~ Reba McEntire


~ Dawn


Saturday, October 02, 2021

Rare as is true love, true friendship is rarer..!

 Today I am going to talk about friendship. How many of you talk to people once or twice at work or school/college and say I have a friend? Or how many of you have friends that you meet and greet, eat and go merry and say we are best friends ?


If you think seriously are they really your best friends? Who is your true friend? I know this is something only comes with experience because when you meet anyone and have good times, you assume you two are good friends and can hang out for life but then when you see certain wavelengths where you don't match and then you think oh, I don't think we can be together as friends. Life is so tough at times when you see that you have lot of people whom you know and who also know you but there is something missing. Sometimes, it's the experience that you get and you will you were not understood well, or you were cheated in friendship.



Many times it's those experiences that you realize you have a friend actually. I have such realization where I found a friend and I can talk anything with this friend and yet we can laugh at ourselves and be happy. 
Today, was such day where I had the chance to be with my friend. Sometimes, when you meet in a crowd you hardly get a chance to talk or should I say you only talk what everyone likes to hear.

"Things are never quiet as scary when you have got a best friend." Bill Waterson

There is a big difference in that as what you like to talk versus what everyone likes to hear from you. I agree when everyone has something or the other going in their life, no one wants to hear any more anyone else's issues. But when you meet you best friend with whom you can be open and share whatever you want to say and in this one on one meet, both of them opens their heart and share about good, bad, and ugly that's happening in their life. 


When I say good, bad, ugly, it could be about health, or about one's stress and yet how everything is under control. It's someone to have a listening ear to you and just listen and not judge you in anyway or any manner.
Friendship is not about just meeting, for the sake of meeting and taking pictures for social media, it's much more than that.
Having a talk about how things are going in life? Hows things at work? How about health of each other or family? If you're a good friend you will always be happy to listen and nothing much is needed, that is friendship! 
If you have such a friend then preserve it and make sure you're there for each other for life long.

"The language of friendship is not words but meaning." ~ Henry David Thoreau 

~ Dawn

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Monday, September 13, 2021

What's the point of being alive, if you don't at least try to do something remarkable?

 Today I want to talk about my Half Dome experience. I have been mentioning in my past posts that I want to dedicate a separate post altogether for Half Dome, so let this be it.

Half Dome at Yosemite is a known icon to most of the folks in USA. When I was doing my local hikes as part of hobby, exercise, I never thought of doing any bucket list item and I never had this kind.


A good friend of mine, suggested as you do hiking lets put a goal and see if we can do it. 
It need not be that we have to do but at least we can make progression towards it. I kind a liked that idea and so this post is dedicated to this friend of mine Keerti. 

If Keerti wouldn't have put this Half Dome as a goal in my mind probably I would have never done it. She is the one who invited other friends too and hence we ended up with two leads in the group of five people. It was very clear to us that there will be some adjustment we would have to do as five individuals need not be of same thoughts and wavelength all the time. So me and my friend all the time relied on each other.

"You can't climb up a mountain with downhill thoughts."

As the days were coming close, our practice hike to Mission Peak , back to back Mission Peak (Ohlone side you go to Mission Peak and then get down to Stanford side of it and vice versa), and Murietta Falls was in pace. We were testing our endurance and were also using all our gears that we were planning to take with us for Half Dome hike.

During these practice hikes, one thing I learned was Sun is going to be the biggest challenge for us as our hike day was on July 16th and weather forecast was something very dreadful with above 100 degree Fahrenheit. Since we have committed to climb Half Dome, now we should not bother about the consequences and hence this factor was on mind posted.

It was during Murietta Falls hike when the heat affected me as that it was 100 degree Fahrenheit and as I was getting closer to Murietta falls  I was getting tired and Sun was so harsh that I literally lost my hope to climb Half Dome. I told one of the friend that probably I won't do Half Dome if this is how it's going to be as I can't take the heat of the Sun.

"Water is the driving force of all nature." ~ Leonardo da Vinci

When you have a team of motivators they never let you down. That evening after finishing the Murietta falls hike, in the parking lot my friend said I didn't hear what you said about Half Dome as I completely ignoring it. I smiled and drove back home.

One thing about these hikes was that each hike there was something or the other learning for me. How to dress in layers? How to keep drinking water and keep yourself hydrated and make sure you are fueling your body so that you're ready for this big hike.

All this was good but there is something bigger than all this and that's your mind. As the days were coming closer, as we were getting last minute gears such as socks, gloves, energy bars etc., somewhere I was getting worried for this unseen Half Dome hike and hence I started googling for information related to this hike. I tried to review every damn article that related to Half Dome hike, read different blogs and many blogs I would say read it and some gave me hope and some really scarred me but somehow I said will see!!!

The day when I was getting out of my house with my bag pack ready to go to Yosemite, I was really nervous and I told my kids I am not sure if I will climb Half Dome but I will hike.

We had rented a Honda Passport I think a five seater SUV car and we had booked it through Turo app. 

My bag pack that I was carrying was Gregory Nano 22 H2O hydration pack from REI, it costed around $80.00 bucks but it's worth one. The hydration bladder can carry up to three liters of water, besides all other material that you need during your hike.

I was carrying the following in my bag pack:

  1. Energy bars - different kinds (Clif bar, Larabar peanut butter chocolate chip, Kind bar, Luna bar etc)
  2. Water three liters 
  3. Gatorade one liter less sugar
  4. Hydration powder with a 500ml water bottle
  5. Fruits, I grabbed Applies
  6. Eye wear retainer specially when you are on the cables you will need this for your polarized sunglasses.
  7. Sunscreen with SPF 110
  8. Power band for your cell phone in case the charge goes off this can be handy
  9. Carry a towel so that if you're sweating it will help you.
  10. Wet wipes
  11. Tissue paper
  12. Ziplock bags - your trash is yours to carry with you
  13. Women's sun protected hiking hat that will even cover your back shoulder
  14. Carry your lunch - this is something based on your individual need. Some like to carry some don't like to eat during hike.
  15. Potato chips for salty food.
  16. A good hiking shoe believe me you will thank your shoes later
  17. Hand gloves -nitrile utility gloves should be available in any hardware store.
  18. TrailBuddy light weight trekking poles - which is adjustable and stable to walk with a must as it helped me through out. You don't carry your poles while you climb the cables because you will leave them behind.
  19. Headlamp in case it gets dark on your return this will be helpful
I was debating what to wear as early morning if we plan to be on the trail, will it be cold? and later in the afternoon it will be 100 plus degree then should I plan to wear skort. Either way based on friend's suggestion I packed both - track pant and skort.

"Nature's peace will flow into you as sunshine flow into trees." ~ John Muir

We decided to start on Thursday and hike on Friday and return back on Saturday. We five people applied for five cable permits which was 4-5 days earlier and luckily one of the friend got the permit so we all got covered, otherwise the plan was to go individually based on the cancellations etc. 
July 15th 2021 - Thursday we drove to Yosemite and everyone was happy that we are together going out but yet with little nervousness as out of five people, three were going for the first time so there is lot of uncertainty.
Thursday afternoon we reached Yosemite and we had booked a tent for one night at Curry Village because the trail is closer to this place and we don't have hassle to get ready and get on the trail from here. That evening we had our early dinner pizza and couple of them brought their own food based on their food preferences. 
That night we five people, re-packed our bag pack because everyone was carrying extra things and this was because in many blogs people said, food was less so they suffered and hence we were trying our best. One our lead who was experienced said to empty the bag and carry only things that you will need and we don't have to carry for everyone as everyone has their own needs based on which they can carry.



We didn't sleep that well as the anxiety was there. Next morning on 16th, we woke up early as 3:00 am and got ready. We made sure all the items (food, creams etc.), in the iron locker to keep the bear away. Our plan was to start at 5:30 am but we got delayed with moving our things from the tent to a separate one near the lobby since we were checking out of the Curry Village as we were getting off on the trail. Anyhow,  after securing our things in the main locker we started to hike from the Mist trail.
Seventeen plus miles hiking where total ascent 5700 feet and highest elevation 8846 feet,  along the trail that passes through beautiful Vernal Fall and Nevada Fall before reaching the cables on Half Dome's steep granite domes.



One thing I was aware of from my past visit that you don't have cellular service here at Yosemite hence I was only able to text once before reaching the Curry Village - something you want to do as well otherwise your family will worry why there is no update from your end.
On this hike, there are only two locations where you get the restrooms. One is full service with flush and other one is non-flushable restroom. 
Another thing to remember is if you happen to not use the restroom and later you need to then you have to make sure you carry those with you in the ziplock bag as you cannot leave anything on the trail, for environment and wild animals sake.

"The only zen you can find on the tops of mountains is the zen you bring up there." ~ Robert M. Pirsig

Luckily, we used the full service restroom and hence it was a big relief for everyone. On this hike, I was consciously drinking water and based on our certain goal setting we maintained our pace. The decision was not to take pictures on the way but we should take on our return. On every blog you will see this but we still took pictures as we crossed Vernal Fall, Nevada Fall and wherever we could without stopping for long. 
We had very short breaks for nature's call and for eating our snacks. Since I was hydrated through out my energy level was good and I was all looking forward for the cables. In between, we saw bobcat that stopped a while to see the hikers and later it went on its way. We were not lucky enough to see a bear this time :) .
After crossing the six hundred steps, which is a short walk but the height gain makes it a bit more strenuous than the distance suggests. There are 600 plus steps to get up in order to get to the top of the falls. Most of these are wet from the falls so need to be careful, especially on the descent.  We moved along the Little Yosemite Valley making sure we all five are together and waiting for each other. 


Before starting the Sub-Dome, make sure you go to the bathroom as after that there's no place to hide.
As we reached the Sub-Dome, its all granite and no shades or trees. Luckily it was not that hot that day, we experienced some nice breeze on the way. The ranger gave us the directions and informations for the Half Dome climb via cables. 
We went ahead carefully as it's all granite and slippery too, thank goodness for a good hiking shoes it will save you a lot.
We left our trekking poles and got in line to climb the Half Dome. It is steel cables and wooden planks that are placed along the dome to assist hikers to the summit.



We got ready with our gloves and it's all about upper body workout. I was focussed and cautious at the same time because as you climb up there's reverse traffic that is coming down and you have to coordinate with them and move accordingly. One good thing is everyone is encouraging and motivating each other. 
At times, the distance between the wooden plank is huge and you have to work on your legs and upper body to make sure you balance and not hit your knee on the rock while you climb up.

"Climb the mountain so that you can see the world, not so the world can see you." ~ David McCullough

While I was hiking from the Mist trail to Vernal Fall to Nevada Fall and Little Yosemite Valley, I kept telling myself in mind that this is only one way and once we return from the Half Dome we have to go through all of these to reach back, that was not an easy one. 
Through out my hike, I was drinking water, Gatorade, one bar and one apple that's about it. You may not eat that much but you need to be hydrated through out your journey one key element to remember and practice upon it.

Our idea was to reach the top of the dome by noon but we reached at 2 pm and took a break to eat something little. Many suggested to pack a heavy lunch as you will need it when you reach on top of the Half Dome, this I believe differ from individual to individual,
We ate very little and this could be due to the excitement, astonishment as we five who started early morning at 5:45 am, were now on top of the Half Dome.



We were excited on the Half Dome as we accomplished this goal or bucket list item. One good thing was that you have cellular service available on top and hence we all called our families and did a FaceTime - it was sheer joy from both sides.
We took some pictures and within an hour came down.

"On life and peaks it is the same. With strength we win the grail but courage is the thing we need to face the downward trail." ~ Jacob Clifford Moomaw


Coming down the cable was easy peasy but then the walk was difficult as I was tired and the water and Gatorade was over and I had saved the 500ml bottle with the hydration powder which came in handy but then 500ml water from Half Dome to back to Curry Village was not enough. I was so tired that I was not ready to take break anywhere. Even when friends stopped for a breather, I kept on walking as I felt if I sit down, probably I will have difficulty in getting up. Took few pictures as we crossed Nevada Fall on our way back and trust me it was evening and we were feeling glad that while climbing up we did take some pictures even though we thought not to stop for pictures. Sometimes it's best to go with the flow.

"If you think adventure is dangerous, try routine it's lethal." ~ Paulo Coelho 

We reached the Curry Village but by that time it got dark and then we moved to Cedar lodge where we planned to spend the night and after relaxing from there we got back to driving home next day which was Saturday!

It was a one day hike that tested our endurance, our patience, our unity, and our tolerance for each other. At the end of the day it was a team effort and as a team we accomplished our goal.
I will be always thankful to my friends whenever I will think of Half Dome.

"It's not the mountain we conquer, but ourselves." ~ Sir Edmund Hillary

~ Dawn

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