I was listening to Papon’s
song ‘Kyun hota hai pyaar kyun hoti hai chahat' (why one loves and what does it mean to love?) and as the lyrics started
drilling in my mind and heart – the question even I started asking – Can one
love more than once? And my heart said, ‘Yes, of course because when you see
around people break relationships and make new ones – it does tell us that one
can be in love many times in life.
Then my mind asked, ‘Can one
be in love with two people at a time? Hmmm! Wondering right?
Started scratching my head
and I thought what could be a situation where one is in love with their loved
ones and then when they see someone showering love and affection, that also
lets them have that loving corner for that person? Yes, why not?
After all why does our heart
melts for someone? It’s their behavior, their way of expressions,
characteristics and many such things, which makes you feel that the person is
real and loving.
Is this fair? I don’t know as this is a very opinionated
question where one can say – not fair and other can sit and justify.
But musically everything is
possible ;) and then my mind says if musically, poetically it is possible then
why not humanly?
Love isn’t all about physical
attraction, it can be feelings and mutual respect – is that harmful and
destructive? Not that I think of -
bombing, killing or even the rape or acid attack on some women.
If you have a thought on this
or an opinion speak up here in comment.
“It’s often just enough to be
with someone. I don’t need to touch them. Not even talk. A feeling passes between
you both. You’re not alone” ~ Marilyn Monroe
~ Dawn ;)
