I am writing this post
today, because I feel we are responsible to fail humanity.
When I was growing up and
used to hear stories from people and olden times, I always felt that, oh, that
was then! Not anymore!!!
"I think women are foolish to pretend they are equal to men, they are far superior and always have been." ~ William Golding
But even today when I hear
women treated like an object whether it’s in under developed country or a
developed country – the story of women is in bizarre!
The male dominating society
is creeping in like a weed everywhere and they just use women in whatever way
they want to and just dump it and don’t even feel ashamed of their deeds. I
mean will they be doing the same way with their mother and daughter too? I am
assuming that those two relationships they might be holding too close to their
heart so can their in humanness be justified if they think from that point?
I had met this young,
courageous woman sometimes back and even I didn’t realize if I had any role to
play in inspiring her. But recently I heard some happiness entering in her
lonely life where she would get a company in life and a father figure for her
teenage son. I mean when you’re meeting a single mother and/or single father,
there’s certain expectation that even as a society people would expect.
The lady Rose was finally
happy that her life which had a very bad and traumatic marriage life with her
first one. She had lost hope and faith with the men’s world when she found this
guy Jordan, who has a grown-up son too. He meets them, take them home and
fulfills the ceremony of engagement and then he ends up to his friend with who’s
instruction he wouldn’t do anything. And this person who is supposed to be the
friend of Jordan suggests him to dump the girl as you can get many women to
sleep with so why you need to marry one?
What an evil
thought? If this is how the mind works then imagine how he might be looking at women
in his surroundings whether its his work place, community and social gathering
events, his kid’s school or for that say his wife’s women friends? I mean such
a filthy guy he would be that I felt as a woman he should be exposed so that we
don’t want another #MeToo moment to come in any women’s life.
"A stare, a proximity, a smile, a touch-oddly familiar. He knows you wouldn't speak, he knows you don't understand enough to speak; Me too!" ~ Nipunya Panda
Jordan one day sends
message on text saying he is breaking up with her. Poor thing Rose, who has no
clue why he is breaking up? What she did that she is being punished except that
she knows the previous day he went for a hike with his so-called friend.
I have only thing to say to
Rose, which is tough for her to handle because she loved Jordan and her son
also loved him. Poor kid is going through counseling and therapy sessions as he
is still not able to digest why Mom is crying, why Jordan will never come to
our home?
"Her innocence, to him, was that sexual toy which he broke many times and every time fixed it with chocolates and ice-cream." ~ notypriyanka
Rose, someone tried to play
with your wings and while doing that they tried to break your wings. Hence, you’re
bruised but I will say get well soon and be thankful that you’re not ending up
like Jordan’s previous wives who have either divorced him or have embraced
death as by suicide. You need to be there for your son and that too a strong
one so that your son can learn too that this world is full of horrible men and
he needs to change that face by being a gentleman!
"Educate a man and you educate an individual. Educate a woman and you educate a family." ~ A. Cripps
I feel it’s a good riddance
in this form for Rose that she didn’t have to lose her life, her son and her hard-earned
money and house. Sometimes awakening happens in different ways and experiences.
Women have to unite to make
sure men don’t miss use innocent women and just don’t disrespect when they are
vulnerable.
~ Dawn
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