It was called 'Man Shower' ~ what a weird name - I thought in fact some other members too thought of the same…but anyway the purpose was to have little fun and more of to give him the good wishes.
It was a surprise event….our manager really did a good job in keeping that serious face and calling it out a quick meeting on some of the work that our colleague was doing. We all were already in the room and hence screamed out to him as he entered ~ 'Surprise!!! and the smile was worth watching on his face.
Everyone troubled him by asking different kinds of question and saying you still have time to pull out of it…and what not. Few gave him advices as what to do and what not to do…and there was one of the colleague who is married for 22 years and I thought that is so awesome but then I went in deep thought when he said as you grow you learn no one is perfect and then you will see you are also not the same who you were before marriage which made me kind of think ~ no! that's not what I want to be!?!
"Love is a symbol of eternity. It wipes out all sense of time, destroying all memory of a beginning and all fear of an end."
I want to be what I am! What I was as a kid and the change shouldn't be part of accommodating or sacrificing…that would be painful isn't it?
If experience brings the wisdom in us then marriage anniversaries should bring more freedom and more comfort in relationships - isn't it?
Well, I think any relationship no matter how long or how short it is been, fights or not so big fights it all evaporates if love exists there.
Love is the only element that lets you forget and forgive and brings you back to your friend no matter how big issue you have between each other.
So friends, don't give up on love. It's worth sharing if you have love. It's worth caring for someone if you feel so for someone, It's worth loving if you love someone - don't worry what will happen and if the other person loves you or not…love is such a fragrance that it will always spread the beautiful odor all around and will keep you happy and motivated.
"Love has no desire but to fulfill itself. To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night. To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving". ~ Khalil Gibran