Communication – how important it is to make rather how important it is to make one understand?
I sometimes wonder communicating to someone with eye contact is only not sufficient as you want to know the person really understands what you are saying?
“Even if you do learn to speak correct English, whom are you going to speak it to?” ~ Clarence Darrow
Many times even two people with same temperament but miss the part of understanding as they often feel the person is throwing allegations and how does the person communicate where he/she should be able to communicate the mere fact and not that its an allegation but a notion or a statement that needs to be done!
“People say conversation is a lost art; how often I have wished it were” ~ Edward R. Murrow
Many times the mind’s temperament is also a big cause in misunderstanding or misinterpreting! You hate when you see you are talking and someone is just not paying attention, and still they show as if they are listening to you :D
“When people talk, listen completely. Most people never listen” ~ Ernest Hemingway
There are so many aspects to this communication and when you don’t communicate thinking its better to be calm and silent as silence is golden, you get dinked on that one too :D
“The problem with communication ... is the illusion that it has been accomplished” ~ George Bernard Shaw
Can anyone tell me if they have gone through something like this and if so what’s there best suggestion to get out of it successfully?
“The right to be heard does not automatically include the right to be taken seriously” ~ Hubert H. Humphrey
Its about healthy communication and not silence ;)
“Communication leads to community, that is, to understanding, intimacy and mutual valuing” ~ Rollo May