Communication – how important it is to make rather how important it is to make one understand?I sometimes wonder communicating to someone with eye contact is only not sufficient as you want to know the person really understands what you are saying?“Even if you do learn to speak correct English, whom are you going to speak it to?” ~ Clarence DarrowMany times even two people with same temperament but miss the part of understanding as they often feel the person is throwing allegations and how does the person communicate where he/she should be able to communicate the mere fact and not that its an allegation but a notion or a statement that needs to be done! “People say conversation is a lost art; how often I have wished it were” ~ Edward R. Murrow Many times the mind’s temperament is also a big cause in misunderstanding or misinterpreting! You hate when you see you are talking and someone is just not paying attention, and still they show as if they are listening to you :D “When people talk, …
It’s been a while since I updated my blog from last time. I was kind of busy and then was not feeling well! But then business is as usual: D I was quite busy troubleshooting and attending meetings and finally when I came to my desk, this colleague of mine who always like to talk came by to my desk.
“The busy man is troubled with but one devil; the idle man by a thousand” ~ Spanish proverb
He is a good talker but sometimes people do change there route when they see him coming towards them…somehow I am not able to do so as he comes to my desk ;) Well, I was amazed the way he was giving me some tips about relationship. I respect him for his age and he often gives me advice just coz I listen to him: D
“A good listener is not someone with nothing to say. A good listener is a good talker with a sore throat.” ~ Katherine Whitehorn
I was not aware that ‘Rakshabandhan’ (bro -sis festival), is tomorrow until he mentioned it. He was telling about his sister who just lives a few miles away from him and …
Lately, I have been analyzing things as why certain people behave in certain manner and when I ask people say it might be ‘Jealousy’.
“In jealousy there is more of self-love than love.” ~ Francois de la Rochefoucauld
I wondered…why Jealous? What is the reason behind it?
I think ‘jealous’ is the final product. The ingredients are inferiority, failure and lack of confidence in self. A person never tries to give up any opportunity where he/she is trying hard to harm someone and yet he/she gets unsuccessful as the evilness of that jealousy is not satisfied.
“Jealousy is nothing more than a fear of abandonment”
I am not sure if you have come across people whom you can clearly see that they are jealous of other person or so. It can be anything, a friend getting jealous of her own best friend due to her popularity, her success or may be she is liked by most of the people. It can be between husband and wife; it can be between siblings too.
“The true test of character is not how much we know how to …